My husband wants to have sex all the time, and, truth be told, I don’t enjoy it much at all. I find myself avoiding him at night. Sometimes I go to sleep early. I don’t seem to have much interest in sex, but he does, and I want to do what’s right.
God created husbands and wives to be one (Genesis 2:24). He designed them for harmony: physically, emotionally, spiritually. When He created man and woman, He knew what He was doing. So Mrs. Happy always begins with the premise that a husband and wife can and will mesh sexually, with God’s help and with each other’s love and patience.
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I totally respect these tips [“Three Things Your Husband Longs for You to Do,” Manna Confidential, December 2011]. But how do you respect and honor your husband if he won't stop cheating? I know God wants us to save our marriage, but is there a fine line when you just say “No more” and still honor God? AIDS is real, and spouses out there are risking their marriage and, most of all, an innocent person’s life if I stay and keep honoring a man who keeps being disobedient to Christ. How do you submit yourself sexually and basically give him what he wants when he's constantly betraying you? If he says I don't want to use protection and you refuse to give him what he wants because of the constant disappointments, is that your fault?
